Embrace yourself : To be confident about yourself and in yourself
The most important topic that everybody wants to be guided about but can't seek help because of the stereo type that what other people will say. The topic is how to embrace our true self irrespective of imperfection that we might have.
In today's time youth are the one who really needs to be guided about this issue. People spend hours on social media to watch tutorials about self embracement, read thousands of self improvement books but fail to know there self worth, here is why, the answer is simple they just cram but don't apply or may be they didn't find any practical tip to embrace their selves. In this article I will give you a practical guide lines which is applicable in real life. So read until the end.
Embracing your self does not mean to only accept your strengths. That's where mostly people mistaken and unable to feel confident in their life. It is important to see your strength to get motivated and doesn't feel good about your self. Seeing your strengths is just one part of self embracement,if you want to be confident about yourself, you have to accept yourself with all the imperfections that you possess. The best way to show love to yourself is start improving your weaknesses. This is the way that you tell yourself that you are not weak you just need little bit of improvement.
Embracing yourself with all the imperfections and weaknesses is a key to self confidence, because if you can't face your weaknesses, then my friends you can't face the challenges of the world.
But don't worry here is how you can embrace yourself.
1. Mindfull of your weaknesses: This is the most important and foremost step to your journey of self improvement is to know about yourself, your weaknesses. Take pen and paper and write every thing that you think needs to be improved. Because if you don't know about yourself then you are unlikely to start.
2. Don't compare yourself with others: Most important think to be kept in mind is to never compare yourself with others, because no one is perfect, everyone has weaknesses and struggle. So focus on yourself.
3. Don't underestimate yourself: No matter hard challenge is, say to yourself that you can do it. Think that every challenge is a learning opportunity and one step ahead in the self improvement goal.
4. Don't look at the people who have achieved self-improvement phase that you are struggling with: This important to because when you see people above you, they seem perfect to you because they achieve that particular phase and in this way you became disappointed with yourself, but look at the people who are struggling so you will think that everyone is struggling. Trick your mind but not let your temptations trick you.
5. Set achievable goals: Don’t be hard on yourself. Always set goals that you think you can achieve . The more goals you set, the more you fail to achieve, thus you feel demotivated.
6. Give yourself reward after every achievement: The best way to love yourself is to give reward to yourself no matter how small the goal was, you deserve this. And this way work harder on the next goal. You will never loose dedication with this method of self love.
Remember! Life is all about improvement. You can improve yourself over time. It is not that you are born with boundaries and limits, you can improve yourself, just you need to be open about your imperfections, be honest to your self.
The biggest failure is not that you failed once or twice, the biggest failure is when you quit struggling to achieve your goals. That is the point when self doubt prevails, trick your mind by striving consistently.
Love yourself above ANYTHING and ANYONE.
Comments
Post a Comment